Jen and I recently watched a movie (to tell the truth, we’ve watched around 20 movies recently) in which the most distinctive line was a little girl saying “My wish was to have one perfect day and it is just ending”. This line came to mind last night as I was trying to get to sleep. It stayed until I awoke this morning and continues to permeate my soul as I write. You see, yesterday was my “perfect day”, and last night was the end of it. Let me explain: Since we arrived here in Pokhara, we have volunteered at a local orphanage called Rainbow Children’s Home. We found the place by accident. One day as we walked to breakfast we saw a sign pointing down a small side street and followed it to talk to Goma, the owner, who quickly encouraged us to volunteer a bit of time during our three weeks in Pokhara. The next day, we found ourselves helping with English homework, playing with amazing kids, and even helping cut vegetables. Rainbow Children’s Home (RCH) has been in service since 2006 and currently houses 19 children from ages 2 to 12. It is headed up by Goma and her husband Harry, two friendly, caring Nepali citizens who have been involved in social service for many years. The children come from throughout Nepal. Some were orphaned because of parents who died or are considered mentally incapable of caring for them. Others have lost family as a result of past political and military conflicts in Nepal. Still others were simply abandoned out of convenience.
This is the case with our little boy, Sagar. I say “our little boy” because we have decided to sponsor him by providing money for him to attend private school, get new clothes, eat substantial meals, and have any other needs met. Yes, before anyone points it out, we are currently homeless, jobless, and generally considered lunatics ourselves by everyone back home in Mississippi. But, and I must make this a strong “but” by repeating myself: but the children here NEED help and Sagar has grabbed our hearts more each day over these past couple weeks. You see, we will return to the USA and find jobs that pay more in a week than most Nepali’s make in a far greater time. No, money isn’t everything, but it sure does help. Not to mention the various other benefits we enjoy such as clean streets and homes, varied food choices, quality education, Christian influence, a government that at least cares for its people, and a lack of powerful fanatic groups that go about murdering people. Yes, we are lucky in the USA, even blessed.
—To find out how you can help, click on “Help Them” on the right and go to their website.
Anyway, back to “one perfect day”. We decided to take Sagar out for the day to celebrate our new sponsorship and to give him what we hoped would be an amazing, splendiferous day! We arrived at RCH at 8:30 a.m. and Sagar was ready to go. Well, except for the shoes. He was barefoot and searching for shoes to wear. We finally determined that he had only sandals and his dress “school shoes”. “What?!?” I thought. “A little boy with no tennis shoes? To steal from another movie (in which Mel Gibson wore a rather ill-fitting skirt), “This, we shall have to remedy”. Slipping on his sandals, we were off to paint the town. “The world is our oyster” I said to Monkey (Sagar’s nickname) as we walked up the street. “What first?” We headed towards our favorite restaurant “The Asian Teahouse” for breakfast and stopped off at the internet café first. You should have seen Monkey’s face when we fired up SKYPE and video-called our parents! He sat staring at his face on the screen, then touched the faces of our parents. He typed his ABC’s and numbers on the keyboard, blew kisses to the camera, and spoke to everyone through the microphone. It was great! He seemed so amazed and excited! So was I.
Our next stop was for breakfast at The Asian Teahouse. He had apple juice (which he drank with the delight that one would expect to see from Moses during all those years in the desert), a pancake dipped in honey, some of my egg and potatoes, and some of Jen’s bread. It was a magnificent breakfast! It was Sunday, so our next stop was church, of course. We attended Zion English Fellowship for about 30 minutes. We made it through the song service (which was tailored to Monkey with songs like “Jesus Loves Me” and “Silent Night”) and a bit of praying and preaching before he started getting a bit restless. One of the other church members gave him a small New Testament Bible in the Nepali language. Probably, well definitely, his first experience in a Christian church.
Our day continued with a stop at the movie store to rent “The Lion King”, the grocery store to get a Mars bar, and a local shop that personalizes t-shirts. Then we were back at the room watching the movie. He loved it! To tell the truth, we loved it too! Gotta love that silly Timon and Pumba, ya know? Anyway, after the movie we headed to lunch. Nepali lunch generally consists of dhal bhaad. Dhal bhaad is a mixture of curried vegetables and white rice. It’s good, but might get old if eaten everyday for years. So, we decided to try something different: PIZZA! Every little kids favorite food, right? Monkey loved it! He ate more than Jen and I, and then had three HUMONGOUS scoops of ice cream! Chocolate blast, chocolate chip, and strawberry. Good thing we’d have a busy day so some of that energy could wear off. Lunch was followed by a short taxi ride into the less touristy part of Pokhara for some shopping. First priority was tennis shoes. We quickly found some that he liked and since he wanted them on then, he got socks too. Next, we found a soccer ball and a toy police car, followed by a bag of candy for Monkey to share with the other kids at RCH. He grudgingly agreed to the last part.
A short taxi ride later landed us at the lake where we took photos, looked at the beautiful surrounding mountains, and took a short boat ride. He seemed to be having an amazing time! So were we! After our boat ride, we kicked the soccer ball (which, being a soccer guy myself, left me supremely happy as I noticed that he passed and trapped with definite skill). We then took some more photos and were off to eat leftover pizza for dinner. He had 7 slices! Did I mention that he is only 5 years old? Anyway, that left one for me and one for Jen. Oh well. I ran down to the shop to get his shirt which now had a large monkey stitched on the front and on the back read “JEN AND CRAIG LOVE ME!” He was so happy and excited to get the gift!
With the day drawing to a close, we left the room and went to look at Christmas trees and lights which I am happy to say amazed Monkey and gave good opportunity to explain the significance of Christmas. Then we were back at RCH and our “one perfect day” was over. No, this could not be considered our only “perfect day”, as we remember a little day a few years ago that we like to call “Day 1″. It was December 17th, 2005. Our wedding day. That being said, this “one perfect day” was about Monkey and about this trip and about life. It was the best day we’ve had on this trip and we hope the best day he has had. The three of us will hopefully have this day in our hearts for as long as we live. Did I mention that it was really great day?